Understanding Harm

Making sense of what’s happened

Not all situations are immediately clear.

You might be asking:

  • “Was this bullying or something more serious?”

  • “Am I overreacting?”

  • “Should I step in or wait?”

These questions are normal


Types of harm parents often face

Bullying - Repeated behaviour intended to hurt, isolate, or control.

Peer conflict - Disagreements or fallouts that may escalate if not addressed.

Physical harm or assault - Any situation where a child has been physically hurt.

Emotional or psychological harm - Exclusion, intimidation, or ongoing distress.

Online harm - Abuse, harassment, or pressure through digital platforms.


What matters most

You don’t need to label the situation perfectly.

What matters is:

  • Your child’s wellbeing

  • Whether the behaviour is ongoing

  • Whether your child feels safe

If something feels wrong, it’s worth taking seriously.

How we help

● Contact

Share Your Story

Why we share stories

  • To reduce isolation

  • To help parents feel understood

  • To show that support is possible

Safeguarding first

All stories:

  • are anonymous

  • are carefully reviewed

  • contain no identifying details

If you choose to share

You can submit your experience safely.

→ Share Your Story