Physical Assault & Violence

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Physical Assault & Violence

When your child has been physically harmed by another young person

Finding out your child has been physically attacked, threatened, or harmed by their peers can be frightening and overwhelming.

You may be feeling shocked, angry, confused, or unsure what to do next.

Mine2 is here to help you understand your options and find the right support.

  • Physical assault is any intentional act that causes physical harm or makes someone fear they are about to be harmed.

    This can happen:

    • At school

    • At parties

    • In public places

    • During social activities

    • As part of bullying or group targeting

  • Physical assault can include:

    ✓ Punching

    ✓ Kicking

    ✓ Slapping

    ✓ Pushing

    ✓ Hair pulling

    ✓ Spitting

    ✓ Throwing objects

    ✓ Group attacks

    ✓ Threatening violence

    ✓ Using an object as a weapon

  • Focus on immediate safety and wellbeing.

    If medical attention is needed, seek it as soon as possible.

  • Allow them to explain what happened in their own words.

    Try not to pressure them for every detail immediately.

    Reassure them that:

    • You believe them

    • They have done the right thing by telling you

    • They are not alone

  • Write down:

    • What happened

    • When it happened

    • Who was involved

    • Any injuries

    • Any witnesses

    This information may be useful later.

  • Depending on the circumstances, you may wish to contact:

    • The school

    • A safeguarding lead

    • The police

    • Your local authority

  • Seek immediate support if:

    • Your child is seriously injured

    • Threats are ongoing

    • Weapons were involved

    • There is concern for your child’s safety

    • The incident may constitute a criminal offence

    If there is immediate danger, contact emergency services.

  • Children respond differently after violence.

    You may notice:

    • Anxiety

    • Withdrawal

    • Anger

    • Fear of returning to school

    • Sleep difficulties

    • Loss of confidence

    These reactions can be normal after a distressing event.

  • Reassure them

    Let them know:

    “This is not your fault.”

    “I’m here for you.”

    “We will get through this together.”

    Maintain routines

    Where possible, keep daily routines stable.

    Seek support early

    You do not have to wait until things become worse before asking for help.

Recommended Support Organisations

NSPCC

Support and guidance for children and families experiencing harm.

Best for:

  • General safeguarding concerns

  • Advice for parents

  • Understanding next steps

Victim Support

Practical and emotional support for victims of crime.

Best for:

  • Emotional recovery

  • Understanding available support

  • Guidance after an assault

Childline

Confidential support for children and young people.

Best for:

  • Children who want to speak to someone independently

  • Emotional support

YoungMinds

Mental health support for young people and families.

Best for:

  • Anxiety

  • Trauma responses

  • Emotional wellbeing

Parent

Stories

Many parents tell us:

“I thought this only happened to us.”

You’re not alone.

Read anonymised stories from other parents who have navigated similar experiences.

Read Parent Stories

Related Support

  • Bullying

  • Cyber Bullying

  • Supporting Your Child’s Mental Health

  • Emotional Harm

  • Working With Schools

  • Safeguarding & Reporting

What Mine2 is

Mine2 is a parent-first initiative from Be Charity Group.

We support parents and caregivers whose children have experienced bullying, peer harm, or violence - by helping them understand their options and find the right support at the right time.

We don’t investigate.

We don’t judge.

We don’t replace services.

We help you navigate what comes next.